Daygame by Tom Torero is a memoir of world-class seduction, centered in London. The book also serves as a guide to daygame and seduction in general, as stories of Tom’s trials and triumphs are reinforced by sections devoted to topics such as: first texts, logistics, the dating bubble, etc. The rule […]
The Girlfriend Game
The Girlfriend Game by Tom Torero and Steve Sapporro is a brief but informative introduction to getting a girlfriend and meeting and dating more women in general. Tom and Steve are also co-founders of GetaGirlfriendYouWant.com, which offers pickup and dating advice, though it’s geared towards promoting particular, paid products. I became […]
Don’t Look Back
Heartiste posted a short and sweet piece “Stop Looking At Girls From Across The Room“. It gives good advice on getting rid of the needy behavior of frequently checking out attractive women in a room. This could be a coffee shop, classroom, waiting area, etc. Many guys have the secret […]
Zen to Done by Leo Babauta
If you’re familiar with the concept of minimalism, you’ve probably come across Zen Habits, the blog of Leo Babauta. I’d read a numer of Leo’s posts in the past and though I don’t see myself following some of his lifestyle choices, I appreciate his honesty and explanations of the principles […]
Reading
Reading is one of the best ways to advance your life. Over thousands of years of human history our species has accumulated vast knowledge, much of which is available on the internet. Most new books and many old books are coming out in digital formats. If you aren’t in the […]
Untethering
Art by Mattias Adolfsson Ev Bogue has written extensively about untethering, the process of severing our ties to places, commitments, habits, physical objects and people. Untethering may seem like escapism to some, but its true value lies in the opportunities that we can open up for ourselves by letting go […]
Focus
Being ambitious is easy. Staying focused on whats in front of you is hard. The greater your ambitions, the more goals you’ll have and the more numerous the steps will be to achieve them. In my ten years or so of gaining leadership experience and learning theory, I’ve come to […]
Competition
A recent post by Dagonet talks about how as men, we need to compete. It goes back millenia to when men had to prove themselves as leaders in a tribe, a process that was never settled, since there were always new challengers to dethrone the top dog. Today we don’t have […]
29 years, 15 days
Until recently, i’ve been satisfied with life. I’ve worked hard to earn several degrees, my ambition led me to a great job at a world-class institution and financial comfort, I’m close with my family and passionate about my heritage, I compete in a sport I learned from scratch a few […]